Get & Keep the Relationship You Want!

Dear Friend,

If you’re not happy with your romantic situation...YOU have the power to change it! You don’t have to rely on fate or luck to bring you the perfect man.  And you don’t have to settle for the wrong man because the good ones always leave.  You can get and keep a wonderful man!  (Or woman!)  

My name is Donna Barnes.  As a dating and relationship coach the question women ask me most is “What are men looking for?”  The short answer is a woman who loves herself.  And the long answer is what I’m going to fill you in on. 

It’s not really about what you look like.  Or what a man thinks of you.  It’s not about what he wants, or likes or does.  It’s all about you!  It’s about what you think.  What you feel.  And what you choose.  It’s about truly knowing you are fabulous, (everyone is) and not settling for anyone who isn’t smart enough to recognize your fabulousness. 

We’re all mind readers in a sense because energy is contagious.  Whatever you’re thinking or feeling about yourself on the inside will be the energy you project on the outside.  You are what you think you are.  And therefore what everyone else thinks you are too.  So if you’re thinking “He’d never be interested in me,” that’s why he’s not.  And if you’re thinking “I can’t keep a man,” that’s why you can’t. 

Your thoughts create your feelings.  Then your feelings cause you to act.  Or react.  Your actions produce your results.  So if you want a different result, it really is as simple as changing your thinking.  Of course I realize that’s easier said than done.  That’s why I’m here to help.  

Start by asking yourself what you’re really looking for.  Forget about what a man might want.  In fact forget about men all together for now.  This is about you.  Take a good long look at yourself, beyond just the reflection you see in the mirror.  Look into your heart, and your mind.  What do you see?  Do you like who you are?  Are you comfortable with you?  What do you really want?  None of these questions have anything to do with a man.  But when you find happiness for yourself in the answers, men will be very attracted to you.  And fall head over heels in love....