Losing in Divorce is Not an Option With So Much at Stake... My Incredible Story and Why 97% of Men Will Lose Badly in Divorce

My life was perfect.  Happily married, beautiful newborn girl. Great job. What more could I want?  Everything was going great.  After my first child, my wife became addicted to prescription pain medication (Vicodin).  This addiction then lead to out of control credit card spending, tens of thousands of dollars in plastic surgery, no sex, and pure misery.   After tens of thousands of dollars in rehabilitation, my wife entered into a phase of continued relapses.  What to do?  I’m working 80 hours per week and have a young child, who with an out of control wife, was starting to suffer.   I finally made the decision that it was better to divorce.

Guess what? You don’t change your wife.  It’s the sickening realization that you aren’t here on this planet to change anybody, and if the person you are with is destroying not only your life, but the life of your child, you must act.

I’m not sure what your situation is, but in mine, everything started off cordial and nice, and quickly turned bad from there.  What started off with an agreement with “no lawyers” and “dignity and respect” quickly turned into a 4 year, $300,000 nightmare that devastated everyone involved (except of course the lawyers). There was no guide written for a man to help me prepare for what I was about to go through (financially, mentally, physically)

My story is one of repeated mistakes.  Mistakes made out of fear, expectations, ignorance and the desire to do the right thing.  After teams of lawyers had their way with me, and years of bitter fighting, I was broken mentally, physically and financially.  What started off as “lets do this nice” turned into a 4-year legal ordeal that brought me to the edge of bankruptcy and major depression.

I’m not a lawyer.  Just a father that suffered through a disastrous divorce and can help men like you avoid the mistakes I made.  And boy did I make a lot of mistakes.  If you can apply any of the advice I’m about to share with you to your situation, I guarantee you are going to save yourself major time and financial headache, and probably most importantly, save your child from the devastation that comes with divorce......