A Sexless Marriage is NOT a Marriage! Fix Your Midlife Crisis...I Did

My name is Doug Steponin and I am going to share something personal with you because I think it can improve your life forever.  And, let’s face it....

Chances are, even if you’re 25, you’re not having as much sex as we are AND probably nearly not as passionate and intense sex as we are!

Am I bragging? DUH! Of course I am!!  If you had a blazin’ hot nympho wife you would be bragging too!

I LOVE MAKING OTHER GUYS JEALOUS!

I’m not the best looking guy.  I’m not a multi-millionaire.  I’m not here to make stuff up and waste your time.

Have you ever seen one of those "very average" guys at the beach with a totally hot woman in his arms and say to yourself "how the hell did he land her!?"...  I am one of those guys!  (Man, is my wife hot!!)

But it wasn’t always that way.  There was a time when I was really regretting my marriage.  There was a time when I was looking to other women to fulfill my desires.  There was a time when my wife wasn’t so hot and wasn’t so sexually charged. There was a time when my life sucked!

I remember waking up one morning and looking at my wife sleeping next to me, she was in her underwear, and I remember thinking "yuck, put on some clothes".  I got really depressed that morning as I realized that I was in a sexless marriage. Not only was my passion for her gone, but it spilled over into other areas of my life as well. I was once a vibrant, "Alpha-male" who had a bubbly, hot wife. I woke up that morning and it felt like I was looking at her MOTHER! AHHH!!! Get me outa here!

Or better yet, kill me because my sex life was over and my marriage was over. That is when I started looking at hotter, younger women to quench my thirst. Visual stimulation turned into strip clubs and flirting turned into more... I was once a guy who NEVER entertained the idea of cheating. Nobody would have EVER guessed that I ad the profile of a guy who could fall into a hot adulterous affair. That is when the regret started.

What happened? Was I suffering from a midlife crisis? Did she REALLY change so much? How much of this despair was because of her frumpiness and how much was my inability to change the situation? In the end, of course, we both needed to turn things around...if we didn’t change our situation, a divorce was the next step. Ugly.

That memory is so funny to me now because if she isn’t sleeping naked, my wife sleeps in those same black panties and white cotton t-shirt almost every night (Only about 4 sizes SMALLER! Yum!). Our lives are full of laughter, passion, joy, and "off the chart" sex" that is more intense and fulfilling than we have ever experienced. We not only fixed our doldrums, we went WAY PAST THAT! Our marriage, our energy, and our intimacy is so intense it has made us both emotionally and PHYSICALLY YOUNGER!.....