Relationships are dying and marriages are failing today at alarming rates all because of a "lack of trust."If trust is an issue for you and your relationship or marriage... Here’s How To Rebuild Trust in ANY Relationship or Marriage-- even if there’s been an affair!Dear Friend, We’re relationship coaches Susie & Otto Collins and if trust (or lack of it) is an issue in your relationship or marriage and you want to rebuild it... We’d like to ask you a few questions about your relationship or marriage. Please answer as honestly as possible. No one will see or know your answers and we think you’ll get a lot out of this quick exercise. Here are the questions... Do you have challenges communicating openly with your partner? Is "honesty" a challenge or difficult for you and your partner? Is your relationship or marriage in trouble or dying because of unresolved trust issues? Are you suffering from emotional pain because you want more from your partner and your relationship and you’re not sure you can trust him or her anymore? Are you staying in this relationship or marriage even though the trust is gone just because you don’t want to go through the pain of a break up? Do the lies seem to go on forever? Does he or she say they’ll change but nothing ever does? Do you ever wonder what you can do to get the love you really want in this relationship or marriage? Do you ever feel like you’re falsely accused of everything because of your partner’s jealousy or lack of trust? If you said "YES" to any of the questions we just asked you, not only are you probably feeling a great deal of pain about your situation but you are now beginning to see that your relationship or marriage may be in more trouble than you thought as well. The good news is that there is hope and here’s what we want to share with you right now about rebuilding trust... What you can learn from our "mistakes" that could actually help you rebuild trust and your relationship... Today, in addition to having a great relationship between the two of us filled with with lots of love, trust and connection--we are also highly successful relationship coaches.
While we are so happy to have the relationship we have and are proud to have come this far both personally and professionally-- the truth is it wasn’t always this way. At the time we’re writing this letter to you, we’ve been together nearly 12 years and before getting together and "finding" each other, we were both married to other people and were with them for quite a while. In fact, prior to getting together, Susie was married to someone else for 30 years and Otto was married to someone else for 15 years...... We didn’t realize it then, but in hindsight we made every mistake possible in our previous relationships and marriages. |